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#1
Hallo !

Ich bin neue im dieser forum, und tut mir leid mein deutsch ist sehr schlecht , muss ich in english schreiben...
So, I m Aude, and i moved to berlin 6 months ago, and it s quit hard for me to find and meet people who, as me, suffer from eating desorders,
i have decided that this year will be the last one, and that i will do everything to get out this illness, die bulimia.
That s why i need your help, i m looking for some support group, "wortgruppe"(nicht sicher of the translation..) or any associations in berlin, where i could meet people like me, and talk about this. All these group will probably be in german, but maybe some english groups exist.. (or franzosische at least... as ich bin französe..)

ich danke Ihnen für Ihre Hilfe, und ich hoffe, Antworten zu erhalten

Aude

#2
salut aude, et bienvenue :D

malheureusement, mon francais n'est pas trés bon, mais j'essaie mon mailleur!! et je le trouve trés intéressant que tu es arrivée ici. je suis heureuse de vous accueillir
well, i think I'd better try english now :oops:

how old are you? and are you in berlin because of an au-pair job, or how does it come you are here?

i think the german word you were looking for is "selbsthilfegruppe" - a group of people suffering from the same illness, in this case bulimia, who talk about it ... and try to help each other. i am convinced that in berlin, you will find such groups!! have you already searched on the internet??

and hey, would you like to tell us something more about you? :) (ok, i'm really curious, sorry ;))

#3
Hallo Chili!

thank you very much for answering ! and your french is so much better than my crappy german..

Yes i have already made researches on the internet, but i think i didn t have the right word , the one you wrote! so thank you again or this, it s gonna be very helpfull for my next researches!

(i juste realise something, i doesn t seem that it s a forum aus deutschland? no? is it from osterreich? well watever..)

To be quick, I m not here because of an au pair programm of something like that, i just came 6 times in berlin last year and i felt in love with this city,
so i moved in september, i probably wanted to run away from paris and from my last job (i was fashion designer there, and i don t think this job was very helpfull for me, a false body and beauty image, models...)
the first month i spend there where the most amazing moment in my life, really, i met amazing people, i lost weight and i didnt think about food or anything related to bulimia, because i guess my life was full of new and great things, i really thought at this time my problem was solved.

But i found a job in early november (designer again..) and i thought it woul be good for me do it, but at the end of november, i took again my bad habits and started again eating and eating very much. I ve done until my contract ended (middle of january)
i can t tell how much weight i gain.. i have never been that fat.
i suffer from bulimia crisis since 3 years, with somehow 4 big times in the year where i lost [a lot of]*kg, and my life is wonderfull, and then again i m really bad and fat again, and finally i find the strengh to lost it again...
i really want this circle to be over, and i thought i should try to find these kind of group of people who suffers from the same pain.
i ve heard lots of good things about that kind of therapy, but i m a bit scared because it will probably be only in german (but it s good to improve my german in a way..hehe)

I really want to feel better and accept myself , but i think my vision of how i must be is totally deformed, and i really have to work on it

thanks again for your precious translation help!

Schöne Abend

Aude (ohh und ich bin 21 )

#4
bonjour aude et bienvenue sur ce site!

@"selbsthilfegruppe":
regarde sous "meetings-treffen-real life" sur ce site: il y a un group à berlin qui organise une rencontre.

bonne chance et à bientôt

je t'embrasse
shirokuma